Meena Mangalathil:

Hey Guys!!!!! Have you had a moment of thought, when you felt, what if I had done a thing in a different way? To be honest, everyone gets this thought at one time or the other. During the time of decision, we decide, to play safe. But after that we see the results of the decision and that is when we think, what if I had done it the other way? It is natural, but I learned this very early in life. In boarding school, every moment of my life circumstances was due to the decisions made either by me or by my boarding mistress or by my parents or my friends. Even though my parents think that they provided me a pampered lifestyle where I didn’t have to do anything except eat, drink, study, play and pray, they forgot that in these activities there are people involved and very different types of people.   So I had to make decisions, several times a day on a regular basis. For a three year old kid, decisions   were made with ease and without fear some decisions have ba

Hey Guys!!!! Here in the place I live, its really....and  literally hot, in the sense that its sweaty hot..... In the climate  sense, it can be yuck!!!! but in the sense of the place, the people, the ambiance, its simply wow!!!! You might wonder what I am getting at, its that, its not necessary that it should be a destination-destination to love a place. Its the positive attitude of life that brings a positive outlook to wherever you are with whoever you are. As I always tell you, positive outlook happens when you love your self, respect your self. You should feel that you are the best.  To be the best, its not necessary you should be the winner, giving the best shot at whatever you do and you are happy with whatever the outcome,  is the best win. The Result - You will respect your self, love your self and be happy with your self and that will bring a new perspective of life and a brightness around you. That is what makes you love the place where you are. Why don't yo

Hey Guys!!!! Love Marriages!!!! Hmmmm....Its so fantastic an experience to be in Love. And I love to see the happiness when these guys decide to get married. In India, the elders, just sigh and shake their head and say, "Its no use, they are doomed to break." And Lo Behold!!! it so happens as such. Do you think, its jinxed? Everywhere in the world its the same. Do you really feel that the Lover couple purposely do what they do because they want to break up the relationship, which they have decided to be happily ever after? We all know the answer to it. Its Emphatically No. Then why is it they break up? Well, we'll check out how we can save a break up from my perspective. Full stomach is a must. Have a secure job, or else, love can sustain until the stomach rumbles, afterwards, believe it or not, you are going to fight for sure - For Food (ha..ha..ha.. what a joke!!!) Little acts of kindness is a must. Whether you believe it or not, the lady is the ligh

Hey Guys!!! I just watched a Christmas movie and you know what? I love to always watch Christmas movies, if ever I get a chance, even if it is in the middle of an hectic schedule, I wouldn't miss it. You might wonder Why I like it or What I like about it?  Its the uplifting experience, its the feeling of joy, love, anticipation and that special something.... Hmmmm...the special something? Well, its nothing but, " The Gift" Yes, The Gift . Christmas is the time of giving. That is when we feel happy. Even before we give, we tend to anticipate what the person who gets our gift would feel. And the subsequent feeling of Love..... peace... happiness....Hmm the perfect mix of feelings for a good contented  life. In short - Just give something, it can be a smile or a helping hand in work or wherever or gifts as in material gifts thing, a good word, a kind gesture, an ear to hear, etc.... etc...etc... Believe it, small small simple acts is what mainly counts in th

Hey Guys!!! Have you wondered how it feels when you are in Love? Well you will know it exactly only when you love somebody. Can I pass a secret to you? When I was in high school and college, I had great expectation, that I will find a person who loves me and I for him. Unfortunately, all the guys in the college were my friends and to be frank, we guys, both girls and boys  were so happy with how we were that nobody had this tendency to do anything other than support each other and be best friends. As time went by, we continued to behave the same way, though we never had contact with each other, the trait of supporting each other wherever we are and not hurt anybody became our single aim in life. Now, to follow this aim in life, we should love that person, respect that person and have faith in that person. But, we cannot do that unless it is reciprocated, right? Well, that is where the beauty of life lies. Nobody can love us or respect us, or have faith in us like we do our o

Guys!!! In my previous post, we proved that we are all part of the Universe, where we have no barriers. So how come then we see all these things around? Its because we live in the box of our five senses. We know and believe a world of five senses. If we see or hear or taste or smell or feel then we believe or else we say, its simply a fluke!!!! And we think, we are intelligent. What do you think? Are we intelligent? I will say, if you and I accept and believe only what the five senses say and trash it out which is outside its purview, then you and I are A VERY BIG MORON!!!!! Why? If a scientist says, you are made up of trillions of cells, will you believe it? Have you seen it? Have you felt it? Have you tasted it? Have you heard it? Then how do you know it? The real truth cannot be seen, heard, tasted, smelled or felt, its above that. Intelligence is guided ONLY by the five senses. So its time to put the five senses in the trash box and live life freely and give a BREA

Guys!!!! You know I think either I am insane or on borderline of insanity. My tagline is usually "We all are made up of cells which are packets of energy." That is the end of the story. But last day, I happened to hear that there are billions of galaxies in this universe and you are just a speck. So while I was thinking on that, I wanted to connect the speck part as me. But unfortunately I landed in non-entity part (means you are a zero). You might wonder how. You know that you are made up of atoms, right? Now we are going deeper into the atoms. Atoms look like a solar system. See the below image So if each atom is like that image, it looks like a solar system see image below :- We are made up of atoms and surrounded by atoms. The pictures shown above both looks the same. If the whole universe is like this, then where would I be or you be? Everywhere or nowhere? What do you think? I am crazy!!!!!? Ha....ha...ha... Meena

Dear Guys I want to pass a very important message which we all face in our daily life, Problems!!! One of my friends, he committed suicide, when he incurred insurmountable debts. One of my friend's son hanged himself to death due to love failure. As we get older and older, when we hear all these, we shake our heads and say, "Very sad". Yes, it's sad, when people do not have the courage to stand by their actions and rectify it when it is a mistake. But the first thing is - to acknowledge and accept the decision. Man is the only creature in this whole universe, that has a choice to do what he feels right for himself as an added bonus right for others. He has the capability to learn in depth before deciding. Man has the power of intuition, where one need not have any deep knowledge of the situation in fact about anything except follow the instincts. Its all good and fine, we have choices and we utilize it to the maximum. And still why do you think, we have a

Hey Guys Sorry, I was not able to talk anything about the Bible for a long time. Its nothing personal, the time is an essence and the energy is another. There were several duties which I had to fulfill on a war footage basis. And I am happy to say, I completed it. You might wonder what it is. " Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?" I have always wondered how this will happen, like how will human beings live without having any money.  My first experience with having no money with me was, when I was in class 8. I had home from boarding and was with my father, he was planning to buy a house and you know, all the money was in the bank and I do not know what the issue was, my dad had only Rs. 2 with him and we lived with just Rs. 2 for 1 week. (In those times, there were no ATMs, if we need money we will have to go to the bank). But we lived ver

Hey Guys There is one thing that is very good to know in the bible regarding the life of Jesus, there is no mention of his adolescent age, his youth, his growing period as man. What does that mean? Simple, the rest is left to you. Your decision, your plans, your experiences. But whatever it is, it is solely your responsibility. It is made by you, all the circumstances you are currently facing. Its like the rising and setting sun, the plant growing and dying. Its a cycle, if you do something, you will have to face the consequences good or bad. So now Jesus comes in front of the public at the age of late 20s and early 30s. He didn't just get out of His house and started His work. He prayed on the hill top for 40 days without food and filled Himself with the Spirit of God, by baptising Himself in the river Jordan, then He started his public life. Now, that's trouble!!!! Imagine all the people, either on the mountains or dipping themselves in the river before any ventu

Hey Guys As I always say, to start at the beginning is more easier to understand than barging in between.  This is the continuation of the previous posts, so if you want to understand the head and tail of what I am saying please do read the previous posts heading Bible - Man's Users Manual I was actually planning to do this as a book, but I thought that if there are any criticisms and ideas of yours, I can incorporate in these posts and in the end make it as a book because you guys are also part of the universe that God has created and you are an integral part for my growth and the growth of the Universe, so its essential to accept and respect you as you are. "Blessed are the children, whose parents guide them to God."  As children, we are not aware of  the spiritual aspect of our existence. But every parent has a duty to guide their children to the Creator. Jesus' Parents also did the same, whatever religion they followed, they made sure Jesus also

Hey Guys!!! This is the continuation of the previous post, so if you want to understand the head and tail of what I am saying please do read the previous posts heading Bible - Man's Users Manual from the beginning. Now Jesus was born and seeing His situation, we feel, He is going to starve. Actually He was born in a Cow Shed and still the Kings came, the shepherd's came. The best part is, all were informed by an external force, the Angels for the shepherd and the Star for the Magis, which is above all human knowledge and thought,  they all came bearing gifts and the gifts that the Kings brought would take care of Jesus and His family without any impoverishment for His entire lifetime and much more and the lambs from the shepherds for the daily needs. Do you know what that means? There would be people who would be brought for our express needs and our needs are taken care of no matter where we are born, how we are born or to whom we are born - our daily needs as

Dear Friends Before starting, I would like to know why we are here in the first place and why we are taking the life of Jesus as our User's Manual Do you think, that Jesus- The Son of God, should be born at all? No.  Ans :- God promised Adam that He will reinstate Man to the garden of Eden and be with God, where there are no mediators only Man & God. Now it is the duty of man to follow exactly what God says to return back to Him. And that is why Jesus was born, to show us the way to God, to Eden. That is why Jesus told, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."  That is why we are using Jesus life as our Users manual to reach the Garden of Eden.  Believe Me, its not Easy!!!  Back to the Explanation :- So now, we know that even before the parents of Jesus were married, Jesus was conceived without any physical involvement or in any physical sense with Mary by anyone. That means, we  too

Hey guys!!! Life is different  for each and every one - The rich, the poor, man, woman, sick, healthy, young, old, etc..etc... etc... All are unhappy with their circumstances Have you wondered why? Well, since I have my own set of mind, idling around, I couldn't find any answers to that complicated question.  So the answer struck me when I bought a watch for my son. The first thing he did was, he started reading the users manual. I for one, was shocked.  For me, watch is just for looking time and well for setting the alarm. So, I asked my son, why are you reading the users manual? the shopkeeper has already explained to you in great detail, how it works. So why bother with this book?  shaking his head  he replied, "Mom, he just gave me a general idea, but if I have to show my friends why I bought this watch, I should know its very best features, and in the Users Manual,  the makers specify it in a clear cut way. If we follow it by the book, it will last long and wi

Hey Guys!!!! I happened to read in one brochure, Oldness can be loneliness. Do you think so? For me, I don't. I have always wondered that old age is the best time to be peaceful and quiet. If you have a family, who is OK with caring their elderly parents or family members, then oldage is the best time. Well if there isn't a family, then too, its the best time!!!! There is one thing you should remember, we cannot make anybody happy with our good actions and intentions, but we can make ourselves happy, right? So do what is right and be happy, whether you are young or old. Now consider I am also old, I make my old age happy by 1. Just zipping my mouth shut. No free advice, unless asked. - Each word is more powerful than a two edged sword. It can hurt not only the other person but also myself. So its better to shut up most of the time and save myself from heart break!!!! That's my policy   Free Advice :- Anywhere in the world, whether you are young or old,  you wi

Hey Friends Its so long since I spoke to you. These past days, I got to speak to many mothers and about motherly behaviours. As I grew up, instead of one mother, I had several mothers, which in a way, helped me mould to become a very good mother.(Well!!!! I should respect myself, shouldn't I?), but that doesn't mean we have left out fathers. Fathers, are an integral part of the family, so I am not focusing on any one parent, we say with one word - Parents So why should we respect or honour our Parents? Reasons :- They helped us bring us to this world They did not throw us on the street or put in orphanages, when we were just babes. They gave food to eat  They bought clothes and clothed us They gave us education and helped us become a good citizen  They loved us no matter what wrong we have done They cared us when we were sick or frightened They showed the world for us They spent their money for us, when they could have used for personal needs In India, the

Hey Guys!!!!! Just check this video, there are lots of questions answered from the real masters. So that there are something for you, that brings a marked difference. Anyway, be sure to know, "For Success There are NO SHORTCUTS" Believe it. For more details, you can click on the link below http://worldsbestbusiness.flp.com/ Take care. Meena