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The Fine Line in School Life

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  How much can a balloon hold air or water? To be frank, I don't know. It just breaks at some point. That means, there is a limit. School life is the best experience one could ever have in ones lifetime.  You are full of energy. Everything is possible. Nothing can stop you from whatever you are planning to do. You are not accountable for your actions, someone else will take it for you. You are free. You do not have to be responsible. You can peacefully dream in front of a book.  But the actions and choices you made is what creates your future. There is always a fine line between  Right and wrong.  The limit you can go and cannot go. The words you can and cannot use. When we cross that line ether you become a  Winner or loser Saint or Sinner Police or a Criminal And how can we know where the line is? Let me give you an example. When you inflate a balloon with Helium air, it expands. If we continue to fill it without thought, it may burst. However, if we are careful, we can stop at t

The Silence

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 " The beauty of silence lies in the all-encompassing sound that comforts and helps one feel at ease in their own environment. " Silence has its own sound, which is something I never would have thought about. During the time that I was perched above the Himalayas, the lofty peaks covered in snow were being caressed by the gentle clouds. The sky was a shade of blue that no human can recreate it. At that point, we would get the sense that we are extremely insignificant in every meaning of the word. Sitting on a little rock, I closed my eyes to absorb the beauty. At that moment, I felt this overwhelming silence. Despite the fact that there were other people around and enjoying this sight with boisterous noises, those noises were unable to break through the silence within me. It was like a blanket wrapped on a cold winter night. It was like the mother's womb protecting us from the outside world. I never wanted to come out of this experience. I felt at home at that moment.  Si

The Power of Word

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 "If the word you utter doesn't help the bearer or the receiver to grow, then don't utter it." Last day I met a person, who really talks a lot and convincingly too. But the issue was, she talks when she is faced with a problem. Her words are so harsh and so angry that I got a piece of it at the receiving end. I cannot blame her because she was unconscious of her behaviour. So, I just told her to stop talking. But she couldn't hear it, she was going on talking. Then I knew, she would never hear anyone. So I asked her to stop and told her, one sentence, "Reach the goal without giving any explanation." We are all here for a purpose, no matter whatever reasons you give, you are supposed to fulfil it. Since we don't know for what we are here for, we live our daily life fulfilling our small goals, like:- Taking care of our personal needs,  The duties we need to fulfil at home, as a father, mother, husband, wife, son, daughter, brother, sister, etc... The d

Don't Let Life Surprise You

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  Hi guys I think this is the second time it is happening. I really do not like being in the centre of attention, no matter what. But unfortunately, I end up pushed in the front. Our organization has several projects. Since I am a measly secretary, I was of the thought, that I don't need to participate in any programs, I need to distribute, coffee and snacks. So in one of the programs conducted by one of the projects, I wore a normal daily wear dress and ready to serve the guests. Believe it or not, I ended up sitting in the front seat where everyone could see me along with the President of the Organization. Imagine!!!! That is life. Always be prepared even if you are the sweeper of the firm, be prepared. Don't let life surprise you. See you soon.

You Hurt Me Once upon A Time

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Yesterday, I met a boy, who was still hurting because he was not acknowledged with the right number of pledges uploaded in an app. He really worked hard on it and his supervisor, told his numbers less than he had uploaded and his colleague's more than he uploaded and yesterday was 6 months and still he is hurting. What will happen to his life? Let's evaluate, if he doesn't solve his hurt. His performance will reduce.  He will not be interested in work at all. He will become sick because the hormones of hate and hurt are acidic in nature which cause damage to his body and some of the organs too in the process. What happens, if he forgives and forgets this incident? Healthier relationships. Improved mental health. Less anxiety, stress and hostility. Fewer symptoms of depression. Lower blood pressure. A stronger immune system. Improved heart health. Improved self-esteem. Only thing I want to say is, no matter who hurts you or degrades you, what you should feel is your choice.

The World Points Its Finger at You.

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  Today my son told me, "I am inconsistent because I learned it from you". Actually it was true. So why am I like that?  When a person tend to do several activities to ward off a flaw, mine here is laziness, which is one giant of a flaw that can overtake me at any moment, time can become a bit limited. Since my innate nature is "Lazy", I have set a day for me to be lazy which happens to be a Sunday. On that day, I am a cave woman (In the literal sense of the word).  The rest of the days, I try to occupy myself with several activities which I do not have any clue about along with my daily routine. So, when trying to do activities which I do not have any idea, I continue with it until I gain a certain amount of mastery and when I get a grasp of it, it starts becoming boring, that is when I naturally give it a break. Unfortunately, the people around will feel I am inconsistent. And I have no excuse for that. What excuse should I give? Don't you think I would sound

Don't Regret Your Past

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Hi Guys!!! Children have no past, which makes childhood fun.  As we age, life becomes serious, realistic, hard work, seasoned. In short, we have everything, except fun.  What changed? We became adults.  As adults, we lose spontaneousness throwing away the sense of adventure in deciding at the spur of the moment. We started to think what other's think. And every adult has a reason for all these - Their past or someone else's past.   In our pasts we have our fair share of mistakes, missed chances, and "what-ifs"  So what?  Do you regret it? Don't be. If we had the capability to know what the outcome would be, we would have selected the best outcome choice. Since we don't have that, we chose what we felt to do at that time. And it was the right choice for us at that time because we did all the mathematics (Unfortunately I am 0 in Mathematics😔), and decided on the right one. If it became a mistake, then that's good. If It became a success, then that's als