Meena Mangalathil:

Hey Guys!!! Every year before the arrival of the new year, unconsciously we have a tendency to make resolutions or if we are young, we are asked to make resolutions. And we try to make sure that we follow it, but it's a rarity that we are able to fulfill it till the very end. Have you ever wondered why can't we keep our resolutions? Well!! Let's check why. When we break promises to others, we feel bad about it. But we don't even regret breaking the resolution or the promise we made. Yeah.. yeah... I know... we have 1001 reasons. In reality, there is only one reason - We don't VALUE or LOVE or RESPECT our SELF . You don't believe it? Let me explain. Let's check the dialogue we have with our self before breaking the resolution, I will give mine. "Meena, I think we need to break this resolution next time, we will do it much more strongly. I promise I will keep it till the year end, but for this once, I have no choice.. I need to break it.. I really can&

When you reverse a Man, it is similar to a tree. And  there  the similarity ends. Tree survives only if its external environment is favourable, if not, it dies.  But Man,  can not only survive all hardships but he grows stronger and more powerful when he faces hardship. Why? Tree grows from its tip but Man grows from it's root, that's why. So, know your potential and your worth and value your Self. Hint:- Don't go and look at your family tree. The root is in you, find it.

When someone shouts at you angrily, the first question you ask yourself is, "What did I do wrong? " Your answer, "For correcting my mistake? But I didn't do any wrong." Your mind continues, "She hates me." And then you behave accordingly. How? By shouting back? or........ Forgive them? What is reality? Why do some people get angry for no reason or for small reasons? Because your action or your person triggered their bad memory. It's not your fault or their fault, it just came out from their emotional baggage unconsciously. When you know that they did it unconsciously, what will you do? You will forgive them and forget the incident, right? But if you don't forgive what will happen? Welcome aboard, you have created a memory for yourself and you will behave exactly like the person who shouted at you, but doubly strong than what they did to you. Do you want it? I hope not. If you don't clear this incident by forgiving them immediately, then it

 Hi Guys!!! What happens when you overtake other's best? You become the best. For how long? Until someone overtakes you? You might say, it's life. When you step on all the peaks of this world, you feel elated for some time but after that, you have no more peaks to climb. Then what? Sweet memories and no more energy to live. Life is not a target to be fulfilled. When you reach the target, then what? The next target. And when you reach the top, then what? Sweet memories and a boring life to live. When you close your eyes, who is there with you? You answer might be "No one". But it's not true. There is one person, who is always there with you. and that is your Inner You or your Inner Self.  Look within you. There is a perfect and more powerful "you" waiting to be set free. If you can find that real "You", then no power will be able to stop you.  It's a lifelong process and every moment of it is more adventurous and exciting making you love you

We always want everyone to respect us. For that, we go to any extremes to make people notice, our actions and words. And when the targeted people do not acknowledge it and do not respect us, we feel sad and depressed. Stop right there. Imagine you consciously smiled at someone. You should feel happy because you really gave a smile without expecting anything in return from that person.  When you are conscious of each moment of your life, you will feel proud of yourself and you'll feel, I really did a good job in smiling.  You do not need to do any grand gestures, just simple things in life can make a lot of difference. When each action counts, you will start feeling proud of yourself. So after each kind, loving and caring thought, word or action, be thankful and look around, you will feel that the world is changing around you. But in reality, its you who changed this world. So, let's start the journey together for  "A Happily Ever After Life". Meena

The same life I had when I was in school - CAREFREE. No Job, No worries, No commitments, No phone calls, No deadlines, No Targets. All the work, income, household chores, everything were handled by someone. It's the best time of my life. Thank you CORONA. Enjoy your life, this might be the only chance you get to live, So, "Live your life HAPPILY EVER AFTER TODAY." Bye. Meena

 I from very young age, have used the sign of the cross and still using. I was thinking it was only for christians. But it was quite by accident, I came to know, another big truth underlying the sign of the cross before a prayer. (Don't ask me, what's the first truth. I don't know). I don't know any history or heritage of it. But I know one thing which gives credence to its significance, which we should respectfully use it by every human being in this Universe before they pray. Surprised!!! Don't be. So, let's check, with an example.  I will take my prayer. I make the sign of the cross and I start to pray, "God give me an Idea for my blog." If I believe in God, then I would not worry about it or doubt Him because I really know, that He will give me and I say, "Thank you , Bye." and make the sign of the cross and return. Here, the prayer will be answered immediately. But if I believe God is up in heaven and I have lots of unanswered prayers in