Meena Mangalathil:

  Hi Guys Last day I happened to attend a class. There the speaker spoke about choices, which made me think.  "If there was a life without choices...... " We make innumerable choices a day, consciously, unconsciously, sub consciously, at the spur of the moment, choices out of feelings like anger, hatred, love, etc.....  Anyway, I don't want to judge anyone on their choices, each one has their own reasons for making their choices, right? But, I want to give you some facts of human being's biology and how our choices affect our biology and destiny.  First, let's know human biology The heroes of man - The five sense organs. It is what decides how a man thinks. You don't believe me. Just check this out. My best friend hurt me -  I saw it, I heard it  and this information is sent to the intelligence and from there the mind took over and shouted loudly,  She is your best friend, she hurt you - So naturally I am very very hurt. Again the mind shouts,  "A best fr

  My cousin was diagnosed and it eventually developed to 4th stage cancer. When you are dead bent on seeking treatment for cancer, the patient has to undergo a long and arduous roller coaster ride with medications and the body's aversion to accept it. When the medication is stopped, the patient's body is too tired to even think on its own.  Unknown about the situation of the body, the family of the patient makes a big effort to revive the patient back to normal which we call in the human language as "Caring". That's when the body acts up. Its not because it wants to act up, its because the body has lost its equipments to face the normal world which the patient was before. He is literally an infant, so the care and the food he receives is alien to the body. Unfortunately, people just want to be healthy as fast as possible. Now let me get to the reason why I am writing this post. In reality,  when the body acts up after this loving care of the family, we have starte

  "The difference between a stumbling block and a stepping stone depends on how high you raise your foot." When I heard this sentence, I really felt wow! The same stone with two definitions? Cool!!!  In life we are always at this cross road of choice, we always have to choose one thing or the other. The situations we are in can either become a S tumbling Block where we always feel we are a failure or a loser, Or it can be a Stepping Stone , where success is at every corner. So now, the million dollar question. How do make the right choice?  It's simple. Choose the decision that increases your love and respect for your Self.  If your decision makes you hate your Self. Then the decision you made will become a stumbling block.  Always remember, "People around you, your family, friends, foes, country men, etc. etc. they will all  leave  you at some point of time. But Your  "Self", no matter where you are, with whom you are, it will always be with you, your sol