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Today's Friend Is Your Tomorrow's Foe

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Human Beings are social beings.  They are among people. They have to be sociable. Each person have their own feelings and emotions. Each person have their own life experiences. Each person has their own way of behaviour. On good days, human beings behave lovingly and very friendly. On bad days some people close themselves from hurt and become silent, for some others they become loud and behave badly by lashing out. In short, human beings are unpredictable.  The only thing you need to know is,  Always behave kindly and respectfully to you and the people around you.  Love yourself and others unconditionally and deeply  Never share yours or others secrets to anyone because, "Today's friend can become tomorrow's foe." That's  not anyone's fault.  That is how we all are. But life continues and this foe becomes your friend again. Accept this unpredictability of life and live to your best of your capability with love unconditionally and in peace. Don't close your

The Stone

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  "The difference between a stumbling block and a stepping stone depends on how high you raise your foot." When I heard this sentence, I really felt wow! The same stone with two definitions? Cool!!!  In life we are always at this cross road of choice, we always have to choose one thing or the other. The situations we are in can either become a S tumbling Block where we always feel we are a failure or a loser, Or it can be a Stepping Stone , where success is at every corner. So now, the million dollar question. How do make the right choice?  It's simple. Choose the decision that increases your love and respect for your Self.  If your decision makes you hate your Self. Then the decision you made will become a stumbling block.  Always remember, "People around you, your family, friends, foes, country men, etc. etc. they will all  leave  you at some point of time. But Your  "Self", no matter where you are, with whom you are, it will always be with you, your sol

Why are Teenagers Weird?

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Hey guys!!!   Last day, my friend's daughter, a teenager, bunked (skipped) class and threw a tantrum(shouting with anger) when asked about it. Her parents gaped at her shocking behaviour. But in reality, she didn't feel like going to school, so she didn't go. It's as simple as that. We do it as an adult, don't we? And have you felt any odd about the situation?   Why do teenagers act weirdly?     Well, first we should know what happens to a teenager at this age. When we plant a seed in the soil, it will be like a seed for some days in the soil. That is like the childhood of human beings. Before the seed sprouts, the body of the seed swells and bursts to bring out the leaf. That is what happens for a teenager too. Their whole body structure is being modified completely.   Let’s check in detail the fine print of human body of a teenager. The teenage years are also called adolescence. This is the time for growth spurts and sexual maturation.      First we will check the

Happily Ever After Series - Don't Reason Your Decisions

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Hi guys!!!! You know, we always make decisions, one way or other. Imagine you are going out, you decide on a dress, shoes, the accessories you are planning to have along with you, the list of decisions goes on. No matter how it looks or how others feel about it, your decisions are yours only. You will surely face the consequences of your decision, no doubt. Nobody is going to share the consequences with you.  So what do you think? Will the consequences be different if you find a reason for your decisions? I don't think so.  My advice is, whatever you decide, " Decide with Love " because the decisions you are making are for you.  Your happiness depends on it. And one other very important favour I want to ask from you guys, Please don't make decisions for others. They are entitled to freely decide. Let them beautifully and lovingly decide, watch their expressions and dilemmas when they decide and be there for them when they need you, that's all, the rest they will m

Happily Ever After Series - The Disease

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Hi Guys!!! My family is going through a cancer phase. When I heard it the first time, I didn't feel anything, no feelings at all because I knew it was the body's message to calm down, take rest and enjoy life. Personally, if it was me, I would have done just that, but unfortunately, it was a family member, who heard the people around. People swarmed from every walks of life and advised 1001 ways to fight cancer. The best hospitals, the best doctors, the best after service, etc..etc... The one thing they forgot to take into consideration is what would happen to the human being who has been afflicted. Anyway, I am writing this post after 6 months of the above issue. The family decided to surgically remove the cancerous part, do the radiation and finish off the situation in one go. Everything was a grand success, except the doctor removed the facial nerve which was passing by the cancerous area and the patient has no sensation on that part of his face. So now, when he smiles or ta

Happily Ever After Series - Why Is It Important To Remove Your Negative Thoughts

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 What are negative thoughts? Let's first check the list of negative thoughts. Abandoned Accused Agony Alienated Alone Angry Anxious Ashamed Attacked Battered Belittled Bereaved Betrayed Bitter Boxed in Can’t breath Chained Cheated Claustrophobic Confused Controlled Crazy Criticized Damned Deceived Degraded Demeaned Demoralized Depressed Deprived Despair Indifferent Dirty Disappointed Disgraced Disgusted Dominated Don’t belong Don’t exist Don’t fit Embarrased Empty Enraged Evil Extrovert Failure Fearful Filthy Foolish Forgotten Freakish Frustrated Garbage Guilty Helpless Hopeless Humiliated Hurt Ignorant Inadequate Incompetent Insecure Insignificant Insulted Introvert Invisible Irresponsible Jealous Lazy Left out Lonely Losing control Losing my mind Lost Lustful Manipulated Mental Misunderstood Mistake Nasty Neglected Not approved Not cared for Not comforted Not needed Not nurtured Numb Offended Out of control Outcast Overexposed Overwhelmed Panicky People pleaser Powerless Pressure