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The Truth Behind The Sign Of The Cross

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 I from very young age, have used the sign of the cross and still using. I was thinking it was only for christians. But it was quite by accident, I came to know, another big truth underlying the sign of the cross before a prayer. (Don't ask me, what's the first truth. I don't know). I don't know any history or heritage of it. But I know one thing which gives credence to its significance, which we should respectfully use it by every human being in this Universe before they pray. Surprised!!! Don't be. So, let's check, with an example.  I will take my prayer. I make the sign of the cross and I start to pray, "God give me an Idea for my blog." If I believe in God, then I would not worry about it or doubt Him because I really know, that He will give me and I say, "Thank you , Bye." and make the sign of the cross and return. Here, the prayer will be answered immediately. But if I believe God is up in heaven and I have lots of unanswered prayers in

I Was A Selfish Person

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Today, my friend told me, that she was selfish when she was young. She didn't like sharing. She hated when her mother gave others good food, when it was entitled for her and her six siblings. But as she grew up, she transformed. It was the transformed person, who revived her past. So, what do you think, was she selfish and self centred? I will give you an example. After that you can answer the question. Have you seen babies? If they see anything that attractive, they just take it. They don't ask any permission. If we take it back, it cries, until it is returned. Do you think, the baby is selfish and self centred? You would say, it's baby, it doesn't understand. Exactly!! that's the case with everyone of us, even my friend. In some of our past, we have done, very bad and very shameful things.  Don't judge that thought or action or feeling. Just like when rain soaked your new dress, do you feel angry with the rain? Do you think, the rain did a wrong to you? No. Wh

When Do You Know You Found God?

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 When you find that you and the person sitting near you are one and the same. No, I am not joking. Let me give you an example. Imagine God as an ocean and you are a drop of water, your sibling another drop of water, your friend another drop of water, your neighbour another drop of water, your enemy another drop of water, your boss another drop of water, your co-worker another drop of water, the beggar, another drop of water, the spider another drop of water, the snake, another drop of water, the tree, the tiger, the lion, whatever you see or not see around you are all drops of water. And imagine you are all living together in this Ocean. How will you find you, or your enemy or your best friend or the spider or whatever? You can't, because you all are one. That is when you will know you have found God because the God is you. How did you become God? When the drop of water is outside the ocean, it is a drop of water. When it joins in the ocean, it becomes The Ocean. So this ocean is e

My Experience With The Universe's Best Teacher - Shobana Miss

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I have always wondered, what's the criteria for the best teacher. Should she be smart? or talented or beautiful? I was not sure, until I met a teacher on the first day of my son's education.  The day was sunny and all the parents of kindergarten students had to accompany their kids to school. It was the time, when play-school had not yet started. So it was a heartbreaking experience for most of the kids to let go of their parent. There were a few who were crying out loud, but most of them were on the verge of tears.  A smart, agile teacher came into the class with a big smile. Upon her arrival, the kids knew immediately, that something was going to happen and most of them started crying. Since all the parents expected their kids to cry, they didn't mind the chaos, but to everyone's shock, the class went silent. What magic did the teacher do to console the heartbroken students? No idea. One thing, I know, she didn't say to stop crying or use cajoling or consoling. Th

Why Do You Get Angry?

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From personal experience, one thing I know is, after every anger burst, I have regretted it. So let's check, what triggers anger?  Unhealed hurt, triggers anger. What does that mean? Let me tell you a story Anil John is a government official. He makes sure, no work stays pending on his table. One day, he saw an old lady coming up with difficulty. He immediately helped her and asked, "How can I help you?" The old lady gave her papers and he found that it was in another department. He took her to the concerned department. Unfortunately, his colleague had closed shop 10 minutes before lunch. Anil humbly asked his colleague to help the old lady. But his colleague just laughed off and made a joke of it. The old lady, turned to Anil and spoke, "Son. don't worry, I will wait downstairs, until this officer returns." Anil couldn't control his anger, he caught hold of his colleague's collar and squeezed him. Colleague, immediately extricated himself and reques

Why Are Your Prayers Never Answered?

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  Once a girl was walking through a dark empty street in the middle of the night. She felt very creepy. She prayed with all her feeling of fear, "God, please don't bring any bad people now. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you." After a moment, a whole bunch of cut throats, hooligans, everyone stood in front of her. Why did God do that? Is He so insensitive, that He can't hear a prayer in need? That's what we all think. But let me put to you simply. He actually heard her prayer and He answered it immediately in abundance. You might be thinking, I am joking. But no, I am completely serious. Let's check which prayer God heard. It's the sub conscious mind that answers your prayers. This sub conscious mind is like a baby. How do we speak to a baby? In one word or two, not more than that. So if you say, "Baby, don't  eat the food." Will it obey? No, it will immediately eat the food, because it knows the one word from your sentence, "Eat" and

How To Live Mindfully?

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We are all searching for love, happiness, peace, prosperity, abundance, beauty and the list goes on. And what happens, when you don't get it? You become unhappy. What happens, when you achieve it? You are still unhappy.  Because that was not what you expected and you want more. So you set a new and higher goal. That is the life you are living now. Now let's check the real fact. You are enveloped every moment of your life in love, happiness, peace, prosperity, abundance, beauty, etc. You might be thinking, I am joking. Unfortunately, I am not. How can that be? Let's check one thing you receive everyday. The air you breathe.  The Universe has given you abundant air to breathe. You don't need to buy it from any store. The lungs, does a great job in bringing the air from the atmosphere through the nose, through the windpipe inside your body and it is transferred to the blood. This air when it reaches every cell of your body, you are alive. Because you have life you see the

Why Are Men Always The Head of The Family?

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You might think, its because the men are the rulers or the leaders of the family. Not really. He is named the head of the family because, his decisions are always made with his intelligence and well planned strategies. Which all happens in his head.  Now, if a man can incorporate his heart with his brain,  then, he officially can become the head of the family.  How so? The sixth sense, intuition, comes from the heart and it is quite powerful. When you follow your heart, you can feel the outcome of the decision, before it has happened. And it will surely happen, because you feel it. And remember, any person, whether a man or a woman, if they can balance their decisions with both, the head and their heart. Then they can easily be the rulers of this Universe.   So, my advise to all married men. When you marry, don't stand tall saying you are the head of the family and think your wife is a nobody. No, you cannot be whole or complete, until you both are in this together, sharing, caring

What Happens When You Are Angry?

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  Well, let's start from the beginning. Do you know how many cells are there in your body? 50 trillion cells.  What is the speciality of these cells? Each cell is one person. So you have 50 trillion people inside you, which is approximately 6000 times of world population. It recreates all your thoughts and feelings. You might think, it's crazy, but that's how your body is made. So what happens when you are angry? When you are angry, you fight. Likewise, all the 50 trillion cells in your body too become angry and they start fighting among each other.  When you continue in your anger, your cells will continue fighting, ending in  deathly sicknesses like cancer, Auto Immune Deficiency disease, etc.. for you and blocking you from all the goodness in happening and filling you with darkness. How do you stop it? Be peaceful and full of love, then every cell of your body recreates your thought and feeling, thus healing, rejuvenating and regenerating your body, making you  younger,

Why Does Love Vanish After Marriage

 Imagine you got a beautiful diamond studded gold figurine, with one hand missing. And you know it's somewhere in the house. You would search for that missing hand, to make it whole and beautiful. When you get it, you are happy and at peace, then will you look for that hand again? No, because you have already received it.  Likewise, you are a whole being, but as you live your life, you lose some of the energies, like being not loved, poor, darkness, fairness, beauty, ugliness, name, fame, riches, etc.. thus creating a void inside you. Then automatically, you get attracted to the people who have it and when you are with them, you are happy. You would feel a soul connection. By being with that person regularly, the energy from that person, fills your void. Now you are no longer attracted to that person or you would not feel that soul connection. In every person, there are different varieties of void. So, when another person that can fulfill another of your void comes your way, you ge

Passion - The Backbone of Life

The most important thing, one need to find in life is passion. If you have not found it yet, then it isn't late, search it and find it, even if it takes your entire lifetime. Why os it so important to find passion? Passion helps you make you human. Passion, can help you open doors to the world of love, peace, happiness and fulfillment. Passion is the gateway to heaven. Passion is one easy way to find God. If the whole world knew what their passion was, then this world would have been a better place to live. Hope you would find your passion and live happily ever after.

Social Media - Effects On Students

       12 year old John’s day begins by checking his facebook, instagram and wattsapp messages, responds every message with likes, hearts and smileys and posts his own quirky comments and selfies and checks on the likes he receives for that. He has his breakfast, watching youtube and his free time is completely used for playing group games from different parts of the world and in between, he checks his facebook, Instagram and wattsapp status. As the day comes to an end, John’s day never ends, his day is still alive and thriving with games and chats and posts. That is the effect of Social Media on students.      Social media, which connects people and helps in exchanging information from different parts of the world in a blink of an eye is both a curse and a boon for students. Before social media, we received limited information through parents, teachers and libraries. Now we can immerse in the ocean of information without leaving the comfort of our room. The range of information we can

How To Control Your Mind?

  There is only one way to do that. Meditation. That does not mean, sit in one place, close your eyes and breathe. Well, if you can do that, then that's perfectly cool. But if you can meditate, every waking hour, then, that is the best way. How do we do that? So, let's find, "who usually says, Meditation is boring?" Yes, your mind. What exactly is meditation? Meditation is to find your inner silence and peace. What exactly happens, when you decide to meditate or pray or be quiet? Your mind will shout "Its BORING!!!" You know you will have to sit there without TV, without your phone and you will have to sit still. You know it's impossible. You have so much to study, to work, to go there, etc... And you will hear it and say, "Yes, its boring and you have no time." You are now a slave of your mind. It is controlling you and you are not even aware of it. All the problems you are having in life is because  you are following what your mind is saying.

How To Stop Creating Negativities?

By consciously being aware that whatever you think, speak and do has a consequence. You are an energy being. Whatever you think, say or do, all has the same consequence. If you think bad but didn't do anything bad, that doesn't mean, you have not done anything bad. You have done bad because you thought it. Because, thought, word and action all produce the same vibration. So consciously stop yourself, when you begin to think bad.  If you can control yourself from bad thoughts, then you can stop creating negativities. It's easy to say, but very difficult to follow in life because you need to control your mind to stop from thinking bad. Because every human being thinks only bad of others, which we call judgemental. If you can control your mind. Then you will have only good consequence in life. Good luck with that. Bye. Meena

How Can You Break Your Rebirth Cycle?

 Quite easily. Let's check how can we break the water cycle. You cannot break the water cycle. But you can break a drop of water from the water cycle. How? When Hydrogen separates from Oxygen or vice versa. Then there will be no water, in its place it will be Hydrogen and Oxygen. Likewise, you can get out of this rebirth cycle. If you can remove hurt, anger, hatred and all negative, thoughts, feelings and emotions from you.  When you have no cravings, needs or dreams.  And if you fill yourself completely with love. Then you can break the cycle of rebirth. So live your life, wisely. And how can you remove your negativities? That's a topic for another day. Until then. Bye Meena

There is Reincarnation

How can I say that? Its simple. We are energy beings. For energy, there is no death or birth. It only transforms from one form to another . So you transform until you stop your vibration. Let me give you an example. Look at nature,   Let's check the water cycle Solid ice, when melted, becomes water.  This water, when heated, becomes steam and  after some time,  the steam cannot be seen.  But we know, that this steam,  is rising up the sky.  As it is rising, it will join other water bodies from ponds, rivers, seas, oceans, trees, gutters, etc. and become cloud. When the cloud becomes heavy, the water comes down from the sky and falls either  in oceans or ponds or mountains or fields or somewhere else. And what happens to the water? Its life starts all over again from wherever it fell until it becomes steam again to go up the sky.  This, is "A Never Ending Cycle". Its unimaginable right? John 3:3 New International Version Jesus replied,  “Very truly I tell you, no one can s

How Can We Forgive Our Enemies?

That's easily said, but very very difficult to follow. We all know, that when we do something, we will have to face its consequence. If it's negative, then negative consequence. If it's positive, then positive consequence. When Adam made the first mistake,  he had to face the consequence and we too. Do you think, God would have forgiven him,  if he had said, "I'm sorry, please forgive me"  instead of blaming Eve? " Of course. And not only that, God would have loved him more."  But unfortunately, Adam just blamed Eve for his wrong doing. Now look where it ended. I am writing and you are reading about it. Remember, no one can force you to make a mistake, unless, you choose to do it. So there is no point in blaming anyone for your mistake. But what has it to do with enemies? The people whom we say as enemies are the people who are here to clear our mistakes which we did. What does that mean? When you make a mistake, in thought, word or action, it become

What Are The Consequence of Your Choices And How Will You Face it?

In the Bible, the first mistake was the mistake of Adam. When Adam made his first mistake. His consequence continued for all mankind and is still continuing.  So what happens when you make a mistake? You would be blocked out from light. The light which is your lifeline, that gives love, peace, happiness, abundance and all the good things you imagine. You will be in darkness where hatred, anger, hurt, unforgiving and all the bad unimaginable lives. That will all be filled inside you. And we all think, God gave this situation, you cannot do anything about it. But in reality, you can. That's why Jesus had to come and die on the cross. When Jesus, died on the cross, everyone thought, it was unfair. But in reality it was actually a study tour of facing the consequence. We blamed Judas, the pharisees and the people, for crucifying Jesus. But in reality, they did not do it purposefully, they were all part of helping clear the consequence of one single mistake, Adam made.  Imagine!!! If th

When Do We Make Bad Choices?

Hey Guys There is no such thing as good or bad choice.  Whatever you choose to do or say or think is always right.  Its the consequences of that choice, which sometimes won't be what you expected and it can follow you lifelong.  So don't blame your destiny, you chose it. The only advise I can give you is,  " Choose Wisely ".  The key to make the right choice is, look around and watch the people who made the same choices and how they are living.  Sometimes elders advise, about wrong choices, hear them and then decide, they can save you from several heart breaks and tears.  But then, that too would be your choice. Good Luck!! See you. Meena

Relationship

 Hey guys The best moments of our life is in small things, that happen at the right time at the right place, with the right people. There is no better time than now, which you have it in plenty to acknowledging whatever you have, because nothing stays for long. Enjoy it, while you have it. If you want to make your life a success, then value you, your relationships and the time you have now. It's the people who makes our life special.

What to Expect from Life?

Hey guys In life, when you give your best, people don't see it as such. In fact, they take it in the opposite sense. And you feel sad and depressed. But don't be. That, is life.  Your life is your mirror image. In a mirror, your right becomes its left. So, when everything goes wrong, remember, you did indeed gave your best shot. Now you know what to expect from life. Enjoy it while you have it. No matter what, others think, the consequence of your action, will always be the best. See you. Meena

This One Habit Can Make You Successful

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    What is it? It’s Passion. Let me tell you a story   “One day, an old man came to town. He told his neighbour that he needed someone to help him in his work for a month. The only condition was, the person should be willing to work. So, the neighbour went to her son, Ajaya and asked, “Would you like to work for your neighbour? Ajaya replied, “Is there a pay?” The neighbour answered, “He’s an old man, so it won’t be much.” The son shook his head and replied, “No mom. I am not interested.” In life, if you put a price for the work you do, then your heart will shut off. And your intelligence and mind will be working overtime, planning your future, which would be an utter failure. Why is that? The heart is your antenna to God or the Universe, that receives all the good things and good people towards you. It’s the heart that attracts all opportunities towards you. Now back to the story,     Luckily, Ajaya’s friend Joby, who had come to meet Ajaya, spoke, “Ajaya, is it okay, if I take up th

After Death Where Are You Planning To Go?

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Well, everyone would like to be in heaven. But there are several checklist you should fulfill to reach heaven. We will just check one of the check list – Remove negativities in you. Let me tell you with the help of a story. Smitha was preparing a vegetable patch in her backyard. While she was digging in that patch, she saw a glittering stone. She washed it. And to her surprise, she found that it was gold,  covered in hard dirt and rock.   Imagine, the gold as you and the dirt covering the gold, are your negativities, like hurt, anger, hatred, sadness, bitterness, etc. which you have accumulated in your lifetimes. Back to the story, Smitha knew, how to extract pure gold, she started breaking the stone to small pieces.   When you are a human being, when you have a physical body, you can clear your negative qualities by your conscious choice. If you don’t clear it or remove it by your own free will, then the circumstance and the people around you, will forcefully remove it out of you, whi