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The Truth Behind The Sign Of The Cross

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 I from very young age, have used the sign of the cross and still using. I was thinking it was only for christians. But it was quite by accident, I came to know, another big truth underlying the sign of the cross before a prayer. (Don't ask me, what's the first truth. I don't know). I don't know any history or heritage of it. But I know one thing which gives credence to its significance, which we should respectfully use it by every human being in this Universe before they pray. Surprised!!! Don't be. So, let's check, with an example.  I will take my prayer. I make the sign of the cross and I start to pray, "God give me an Idea for my blog." If I believe in God, then I would not worry about it or doubt Him because I really know, that He will give me and I say, "Thank you , Bye." and make the sign of the cross and return. Here, the prayer will be answered immediately. But if I believe God is up in heaven and I have lots of unanswered prayers in

I Was A Selfish Person

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Today, my friend told me, that she was selfish when she was young. She didn't like sharing. She hated when her mother gave others good food, when it was entitled for her and her six siblings. But as she grew up, she transformed. It was the transformed person, who revived her past. So, what do you think, was she selfish and self centred? I will give you an example. After that you can answer the question. Have you seen babies? If they see anything that attractive, they just take it. They don't ask any permission. If we take it back, it cries, until it is returned. Do you think, the baby is selfish and self centred? You would say, it's baby, it doesn't understand. Exactly!! that's the case with everyone of us, even my friend. In some of our past, we have done, very bad and very shameful things.  Don't judge that thought or action or feeling. Just like when rain soaked your new dress, do you feel angry with the rain? Do you think, the rain did a wrong to you? No. Wh

Why Do You Get Angry?

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From personal experience, one thing I know is, after every anger burst, I have regretted it. So let's check, what triggers anger?  Unhealed hurt, triggers anger. What does that mean? Let me tell you a story Anil John is a government official. He makes sure, no work stays pending on his table. One day, he saw an old lady coming up with difficulty. He immediately helped her and asked, "How can I help you?" The old lady gave her papers and he found that it was in another department. He took her to the concerned department. Unfortunately, his colleague had closed shop 10 minutes before lunch. Anil humbly asked his colleague to help the old lady. But his colleague just laughed off and made a joke of it. The old lady, turned to Anil and spoke, "Son. don't worry, I will wait downstairs, until this officer returns." Anil couldn't control his anger, he caught hold of his colleague's collar and squeezed him. Colleague, immediately extricated himself and reques

How To Live Mindfully?

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We are all searching for love, happiness, peace, prosperity, abundance, beauty and the list goes on. And what happens, when you don't get it? You become unhappy. What happens, when you achieve it? You are still unhappy.  Because that was not what you expected and you want more. So you set a new and higher goal. That is the life you are living now. Now let's check the real fact. You are enveloped every moment of your life in love, happiness, peace, prosperity, abundance, beauty, etc. You might be thinking, I am joking. Unfortunately, I am not. How can that be? Let's check one thing you receive everyday. The air you breathe.  The Universe has given you abundant air to breathe. You don't need to buy it from any store. The lungs, does a great job in bringing the air from the atmosphere through the nose, through the windpipe inside your body and it is transferred to the blood. This air when it reaches every cell of your body, you are alive. Because you have life you see the

Why Does Love Vanish After Marriage

 Imagine you got a beautiful diamond studded gold figurine, with one hand missing. And you know it's somewhere in the house. You would search for that missing hand, to make it whole and beautiful. When you get it, you are happy and at peace, then will you look for that hand again? No, because you have already received it.  Likewise, you are a whole being, but as you live your life, you lose some of the energies, like being not loved, poor, darkness, fairness, beauty, ugliness, name, fame, riches, etc.. thus creating a void inside you. Then automatically, you get attracted to the people who have it and when you are with them, you are happy. You would feel a soul connection. By being with that person regularly, the energy from that person, fills your void. Now you are no longer attracted to that person or you would not feel that soul connection. In every person, there are different varieties of void. So, when another person that can fulfill another of your void comes your way, you ge

How To Control Your Mind?

  There is only one way to do that. Meditation. That does not mean, sit in one place, close your eyes and breathe. Well, if you can do that, then that's perfectly cool. But if you can meditate, every waking hour, then, that is the best way. How do we do that? So, let's find, "who usually says, Meditation is boring?" Yes, your mind. What exactly is meditation? Meditation is to find your inner silence and peace. What exactly happens, when you decide to meditate or pray or be quiet? Your mind will shout "Its BORING!!!" You know you will have to sit there without TV, without your phone and you will have to sit still. You know it's impossible. You have so much to study, to work, to go there, etc... And you will hear it and say, "Yes, its boring and you have no time." You are now a slave of your mind. It is controlling you and you are not even aware of it. All the problems you are having in life is because  you are following what your mind is saying.

How To Stop Creating Negativities?

By consciously being aware that whatever you think, speak and do has a consequence. You are an energy being. Whatever you think, say or do, all has the same consequence. If you think bad but didn't do anything bad, that doesn't mean, you have not done anything bad. You have done bad because you thought it. Because, thought, word and action all produce the same vibration. So consciously stop yourself, when you begin to think bad.  If you can control yourself from bad thoughts, then you can stop creating negativities. It's easy to say, but very difficult to follow in life because you need to control your mind to stop from thinking bad. Because every human being thinks only bad of others, which we call judgemental. If you can control your mind. Then you will have only good consequence in life. Good luck with that. Bye. Meena

How Can You Break Your Rebirth Cycle?

 Quite easily. Let's check how can we break the water cycle. You cannot break the water cycle. But you can break a drop of water from the water cycle. How? When Hydrogen separates from Oxygen or vice versa. Then there will be no water, in its place it will be Hydrogen and Oxygen. Likewise, you can get out of this rebirth cycle. If you can remove hurt, anger, hatred and all negative, thoughts, feelings and emotions from you.  When you have no cravings, needs or dreams.  And if you fill yourself completely with love. Then you can break the cycle of rebirth. So live your life, wisely. And how can you remove your negativities? That's a topic for another day. Until then. Bye Meena

There is Reincarnation

How can I say that? Its simple. We are energy beings. For energy, there is no death or birth. It only transforms from one form to another . So you transform until you stop your vibration. Let me give you an example. Look at nature,   Let's check the water cycle Solid ice, when melted, becomes water.  This water, when heated, becomes steam and  after some time,  the steam cannot be seen.  But we know, that this steam,  is rising up the sky.  As it is rising, it will join other water bodies from ponds, rivers, seas, oceans, trees, gutters, etc. and become cloud. When the cloud becomes heavy, the water comes down from the sky and falls either  in oceans or ponds or mountains or fields or somewhere else. And what happens to the water? Its life starts all over again from wherever it fell until it becomes steam again to go up the sky.  This, is "A Never Ending Cycle". Its unimaginable right? John 3:3 New International Version Jesus replied,  “Very truly I tell you, no one can s

A Teenager's Happily Ever After Guide

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Hey Guys Wishing you all the Very Best New Year. May all your wishes come true. May you have love, peace, happiness, prosperity in abundance. My New e Book published in amazon which you can get anywhere in the world. https://www.amazon.in/s?k=A+Teenager%27s+%22Happily+Ever+After%22+Guide%3A+A+Ready+to+Live+Book&rh=n%3A1634753031&_encoding=UTF8 "A Teenager's Happily Ever After" Guide is a ready to live book for all ages, caste, creed, nationality and sex. It gives you an idea of, Why you are here in this world? What is the point in living? Why is your life going in circles? Why is your life boring? How can you get out of this life cycle? And many more. But this is specially written for teenagers in their language they understand. Why teenagers? “Teenage Years” the best years of a person’s life. The time you are free with no cares. It’s the time you are bursting to make decisions like an adult. You are fearless. You do not believe in “Impossibl

Five Senses, A Necessity????

Hey Guys!!!! First lets check, what the five senses are :- Eyes Nose Ears Tongue Skin Now, why do we need these five senses? Ans :- To see, smell, hear, taste and to feel. Its cute isn't it?  But when the stomach rumbles or the heart pains or the breathing acts up does these senses have any role? Do they know that there is a stomach or a kidney or a heart or whatever inside the body who is working very hard day and night, without fail, in the first place who help to survive us, making our life a better place to live? Ans :- I as Meena or we as human being look in the mirror and see a very beautiful face and see a scar or an acne or a dark circle or a mole or whatever we see we immediately wail and whine and turn the world upside down to correct it, that goes for the other senses. But we would not even know the ailments inside our body unless its too late.  What does that mean? Our world revolves around the five senses, we are conscious of each and ev

Setting Goals

Hey Guys!!! Do you know what I need in life, total freedom to follow my passion. That means we should have a true passion to make our life meaningful and a total freedom to do it. So when you set goals, try to connect it with your passion and the chances are you can reach it within no time. My thoughts :- If ever you set a goal, make sure that its not achievable or out of your reach. That is when your mind and heart strengthens itself to take that leap of faith. Which faith? The faith in your self, that you can achieve it no matter what and that will be the ride of your life. Believe it or not, the moment when you reach that summit or the destination or the goal, you will learn how priceless it is and don't stop there, set the next non achievable goal, because all goals are achievable within no time,  but the key word is " Passion ". Do you want to hear my story? I had a very big passion, to become a doctor and save as many people as possible and mostly

Don't Let Society Dictate Your Life

Hey Guys!!!! Today, as I was walking back home in the morning, two nuns were rushing to work, one a senior and another a junior. They were wearing their official nun's dress and the senior had a hand bag and a carry bag and the junior a backpack using as it should be. She was not shy to carry it on her back. Nobody felt it odd that a nun is having a backpack on her back, but the senior was not comfortable with that. She forced the junior to take off the backpack (It was quite heavy) and offered to carry it for her in her hand and gave her the carry bag.  It was an eye opener to me, though the junior was comfortable with the way she took care of herself with that bag, the senior was making sure that the junior conducts herself as the society dictates. Its not weird, we all do that in our daily life, the question everyone asks before they do anything is, "what would people think?" And we direct our life according to the society's norms and also accordi

Aim in Life

Hey Guys!!!! I know, its weird to speak of aim in life. If I say, everyone has only one aim in life, then how much more weird it will be? Yesterday I met two Australian ladies who came to India to follow a Yogini (a female sage) named amma. The younger of the two is a staunch believer of amma. She has been following her for the past 8 years. So I asked her "What good of amma do you use in your daily life?" She replied, " I don't know, I guess, amma helps a lot of people and that I do too." And she asked, am I following amma. I replied in the negative. Its not that I am against anyone or anything. Its because I should know, why I would like to follow a person. So while talking, I was asking myself, why am I here in this world in the first place? While evaluating life - sitting in the chair and wasting tons of words (part of profession) to impress others. Is it worth it? What is my aim in my life? This put me in a search mode, well, its n

Let God Take Over

Hey Guys!!! I know, its very difficult to understand the unseen God and His workings. But believe, there is a very big Super Power, who works in the background at all times. Have you wondered how your human body works? Do you have any role in any of its workings except for the basics of eating, drinking, resting and keeping it clean? When you look at the sky, how beautiful everything is placed, have you role in any of it? Look at the nature, how much abundantly its giving us, have you any role in it except for utilizing it to the very maximum? But I say, this super power has the lead role, and that is who He Is - The Almighty God. I would like to say an incident which happened very recently, my friend John wanted to purchase a car but he had no money to give for his downpayment, so he asked his friend for a loan and his friend readily accepted to lend him. So he booked the car and paid a small amount as assurance that he will pay the downpayment when the car arrives, which w

The LoC of Friendship

Hey Guys!!! Friends are the best, when they are there to support us, guide us and lend an ear to hear us. But when they try to take the place of someone, then that is where they cross the Line of Control (LoC). We all have a place in life, no matter what, be there and don't overstep it. Last day, my friend, a married lady who has a good-for-nothing husband and smart two daughters. So it was natural, she needed someone to hear her problems and that was with her colleague, who was a man. Their friendship grew, they helped each other out, now the man wants to have a say in each and every aspect of her life - to whom to talk with, to whom to be with, etc...etc..... that was the death knell of that beautiful relationship.  Whose mistake is it? It is nobody's mistake, we cannot control our heart and the effects the other people have  on us. It can escalate for sure. Then there are the famous "circumstances", like my friend, she has to take care of he

Friendship

Hey Guys!!!! The one relationship in the world, were we take it for granted, until we know the value of it, when we lose it. We cannot define friendship in set of words, but it covers  vast aspects of several relationships, bypassing all categories of relationship like relationship between spouses, parent-children relationship, teacher-student relationship, student/s-student/s relationship, colleagues, employer-employee relationship and the criteria goes on and on...... its a never ending saga of bonds or connections. How do we define friendship? two persons connect together by helping at the right moment without any bias of gender, place, caste, community or religion?    or is it The unconditional love, without any expectation of returning the favours received.  But one thing is for certain, It never tries to cross the border of etiquette or hurt the other person purposely. Its an all giving and all consuming connection These features are more pronounced when we are

Smile

Hey Guys!!!! The best thing about smiling is, it has many expressions packed into one single smile, its like 1000 words are packed into one smile, its like the pleasure of presence expressed. Its lots of things. For example, you see a person, instead of saying "Hi!!!" you just smile. So when the smile is returned, its like, "Hi!!!! It was a pleasure meeting you or it might mean, I am not averse to have met you, etc..." If the smile is not returned, then he/she  is not interested in making acquaintance with you. When a mother sees her child - the first expression is the smile and that goes for the child too, the expression of happiness, love and relief packed in one. When a lover sees his love - the first expression is the smile of Love, happiness and contentment. When a husband sees a wife - again the famous smile. For each and every facets of life, smile is a must, an inevitable necessity. Isn't it beautiful, Communication without languag

How to Stay Always Healthy

Hey Guys!!! Have you wondered why some sickness cannot be cured? or why one fine day, you are afflicted with sickness and for lifelong you are bedridden? It does not mean that you had a viral attack or vitamin deficiency or some such sort. Any sickness, which is curable can be said due to above reasons, but when it doesn't cure after all the medications and treatments, then you will have to go deeper - A depth within you. Just like we going into the deepest part of the ocean or the universe, but its much more easier to go into you. If ever you have read my previous blogs, its mostly full of crap called love. Have you wondered why all the religious books reiterate that Love thy neighbours as thyself? Well, there is a secret behind it, Love, compassion, kindness, peacefulness are all part of the same emotion – Love. Each emotion other than that stated above creates acid in your body. Any acid when it falls in any part of the body destroys that part

Take Risks But Not Recklessly

Hey Guys!!!!! Have you had a moment of thought, when you felt, what if I had done a thing in a different way? To be honest, everyone gets this thought at one time or the other. During the time of decision, we decide, to play safe. But after that we see the results of the decision and that is when we think, what if I had done it the other way? It is natural, but I learned this very early in life. In boarding school, every moment of my life circumstances was due to the decisions made either by me or by my boarding mistress or by my parents or my friends. Even though my parents think that they provided me a pampered lifestyle where I didn’t have to do anything except eat, drink, study, play and pray, they forgot that in these activities there are people involved and very different types of people.   So I had to make decisions, several times a day on a regular basis. For a three year old kid, decisions   were made with ease and without fear some decisions have ba