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Why Do You Get Angry?

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From personal experience, one thing I know is, after every anger burst, I have regretted it. So let's check, what triggers anger?  Unhealed hurt, triggers anger. What does that mean? Let me tell you a story Anil John is a government official. He makes sure, no work stays pending on his table. One day, he saw an old lady coming up with difficulty. He immediately helped her and asked, "How can I help you?" The old lady gave her papers and he found that it was in another department. He took her to the concerned department. Unfortunately, his colleague had closed shop 10 minutes before lunch. Anil humbly asked his colleague to help the old lady. But his colleague just laughed off and made a joke of it. The old lady, turned to Anil and spoke, "Son. don't worry, I will wait downstairs, until this officer returns." Anil couldn't control his anger, he caught hold of his colleague's collar and squeezed him. Colleague, immediately extricated himself and reques

Why Are Men Always The Head of The Family?

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You might think, its because the men are the rulers or the leaders of the family. Not really. He is named the head of the family because, his decisions are always made with his intelligence and well planned strategies. Which all happens in his head.  Now, if a man can incorporate his heart with his brain,  then, he officially can become the head of the family.  How so? The sixth sense, intuition, comes from the heart and it is quite powerful. When you follow your heart, you can feel the outcome of the decision, before it has happened. And it will surely happen, because you feel it. And remember, any person, whether a man or a woman, if they can balance their decisions with both, the head and their heart. Then they can easily be the rulers of this Universe.   So, my advise to all married men. When you marry, don't stand tall saying you are the head of the family and think your wife is a nobody. No, you cannot be whole or complete, until you both are in this together, sharing, caring

Passion - The Backbone of Life

The most important thing, one need to find in life is passion. If you have not found it yet, then it isn't late, search it and find it, even if it takes your entire lifetime. Why os it so important to find passion? Passion helps you make you human. Passion, can help you open doors to the world of love, peace, happiness and fulfillment. Passion is the gateway to heaven. Passion is one easy way to find God. If the whole world knew what their passion was, then this world would have been a better place to live. Hope you would find your passion and live happily ever after.

Social Media - Effects On Students

       12 year old John’s day begins by checking his facebook, instagram and wattsapp messages, responds every message with likes, hearts and smileys and posts his own quirky comments and selfies and checks on the likes he receives for that. He has his breakfast, watching youtube and his free time is completely used for playing group games from different parts of the world and in between, he checks his facebook, Instagram and wattsapp status. As the day comes to an end, John’s day never ends, his day is still alive and thriving with games and chats and posts. That is the effect of Social Media on students.      Social media, which connects people and helps in exchanging information from different parts of the world in a blink of an eye is both a curse and a boon for students. Before social media, we received limited information through parents, teachers and libraries. Now we can immerse in the ocean of information without leaving the comfort of our room. The range of information we can

How To Control Your Mind?

  There is only one way to do that. Meditation. That does not mean, sit in one place, close your eyes and breathe. Well, if you can do that, then that's perfectly cool. But if you can meditate, every waking hour, then, that is the best way. How do we do that? So, let's find, "who usually says, Meditation is boring?" Yes, your mind. What exactly is meditation? Meditation is to find your inner silence and peace. What exactly happens, when you decide to meditate or pray or be quiet? Your mind will shout "Its BORING!!!" You know you will have to sit there without TV, without your phone and you will have to sit still. You know it's impossible. You have so much to study, to work, to go there, etc... And you will hear it and say, "Yes, its boring and you have no time." You are now a slave of your mind. It is controlling you and you are not even aware of it. All the problems you are having in life is because  you are following what your mind is saying.

How Can You Break Your Rebirth Cycle?

 Quite easily. Let's check how can we break the water cycle. You cannot break the water cycle. But you can break a drop of water from the water cycle. How? When Hydrogen separates from Oxygen or vice versa. Then there will be no water, in its place it will be Hydrogen and Oxygen. Likewise, you can get out of this rebirth cycle. If you can remove hurt, anger, hatred and all negative, thoughts, feelings and emotions from you.  When you have no cravings, needs or dreams.  And if you fill yourself completely with love. Then you can break the cycle of rebirth. So live your life, wisely. And how can you remove your negativities? That's a topic for another day. Until then. Bye Meena

There is Reincarnation

How can I say that? Its simple. We are energy beings. For energy, there is no death or birth. It only transforms from one form to another . So you transform until you stop your vibration. Let me give you an example. Look at nature,   Let's check the water cycle Solid ice, when melted, becomes water.  This water, when heated, becomes steam and  after some time,  the steam cannot be seen.  But we know, that this steam,  is rising up the sky.  As it is rising, it will join other water bodies from ponds, rivers, seas, oceans, trees, gutters, etc. and become cloud. When the cloud becomes heavy, the water comes down from the sky and falls either  in oceans or ponds or mountains or fields or somewhere else. And what happens to the water? Its life starts all over again from wherever it fell until it becomes steam again to go up the sky.  This, is "A Never Ending Cycle". Its unimaginable right? John 3:3 New International Version Jesus replied,  “Very truly I tell you, no one can s

Sorry, Please Forgive Me...

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    I have always wondered, if Adam had replied to God, “Sorry God, Please forgive me.” What would have been the result? We don’t know, because he didn’t say it. But one thing we all know, we are all carrying the consequence of his one mistake. And adding to that, we are making several mistakes both knowingly and unknowingly. If you knew, that your mistake will affect your children and all the generations that follow, will you make a mistake? of course not. And You will be very careful when making each decision, right? Well from now on, you can be careful. But what about the past mistakes?   If you do not correct it, while you are alive, then you will be passing all the consequence of the mistake, on to your future generation. That’s sad right? How can you correct it?   You are an Energy Being . Each time, when you do something negative, like being angry, hating someone, hurting someone, not helping someone, lying, robbing, cheating, killing, etc. it becomes a memory in your energy lev

A Teenager's Happily Ever After Guide

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Hey Guys Wishing you all the Very Best New Year. May all your wishes come true. May you have love, peace, happiness, prosperity in abundance. My New e Book published in amazon which you can get anywhere in the world. https://www.amazon.in/s?k=A+Teenager%27s+%22Happily+Ever+After%22+Guide%3A+A+Ready+to+Live+Book&rh=n%3A1634753031&_encoding=UTF8 "A Teenager's Happily Ever After" Guide is a ready to live book for all ages, caste, creed, nationality and sex. It gives you an idea of, Why you are here in this world? What is the point in living? Why is your life going in circles? Why is your life boring? How can you get out of this life cycle? And many more. But this is specially written for teenagers in their language they understand. Why teenagers? “Teenage Years” the best years of a person’s life. The time you are free with no cares. It’s the time you are bursting to make decisions like an adult. You are fearless. You do not believe in “Impossibl

Five Senses, A Necessity????

Hey Guys!!!! First lets check, what the five senses are :- Eyes Nose Ears Tongue Skin Now, why do we need these five senses? Ans :- To see, smell, hear, taste and to feel. Its cute isn't it?  But when the stomach rumbles or the heart pains or the breathing acts up does these senses have any role? Do they know that there is a stomach or a kidney or a heart or whatever inside the body who is working very hard day and night, without fail, in the first place who help to survive us, making our life a better place to live? Ans :- I as Meena or we as human being look in the mirror and see a very beautiful face and see a scar or an acne or a dark circle or a mole or whatever we see we immediately wail and whine and turn the world upside down to correct it, that goes for the other senses. But we would not even know the ailments inside our body unless its too late.  What does that mean? Our world revolves around the five senses, we are conscious of each and ev

Go For It

Hey Guys!!!! You might be wondering, what does " Go For It " means. Well!!!!! when we were small we had only small goals and each and everyone around us motivates us to " Go For It".  You can do it. And we have gone for it and achieved it too. But as we grow older, we decide or choose according to the dictates of our experiences, society and above all, anything which has no risks or pitfalls - The result - Unhappiness, a voidness, something missing. Why is that? Its because there is this one key ingredient which is missing - Passion to " Go For It" . I would like to say an incident which happened in my life. As a rule, I am not a great cook or a home maker or a person who knows to clean her own room or for that matter her own room or wash clothes. So I ended up in a place where I had to be all of these and more, I became the lady of an ancestral house with parents who are 80 plus with workers to help in the field and family members going in

Society - A Necessity

Hey Guys!!! You know, when you are full of ideas, you wouldn't know where to start or what to start. But one thing is for sure, you will have to get off from the regular life to know the difference between the way you live and way you can make your life live. Get to see the people other than you, your family or your immediate society, believe it, its an eye opener. The society where I live are people who are more bothered about appearances than anything which has depth. There is a saying which says that if your wife is from Cochin, its better to meet her family on the street than in her house because she would not have anything commendable there. Its not only in one place now its a part of society - thinking of me and my immediate family, the rest are outsiders. So after a long time, I travelled to the slums of Mumbai. The amount of work, the number of people living and working there, the busy streets, the small pathways, the way they manage their space, the ceremonie

Don't Let Society Dictate Your Life

Hey Guys!!!! Today, as I was walking back home in the morning, two nuns were rushing to work, one a senior and another a junior. They were wearing their official nun's dress and the senior had a hand bag and a carry bag and the junior a backpack using as it should be. She was not shy to carry it on her back. Nobody felt it odd that a nun is having a backpack on her back, but the senior was not comfortable with that. She forced the junior to take off the backpack (It was quite heavy) and offered to carry it for her in her hand and gave her the carry bag.  It was an eye opener to me, though the junior was comfortable with the way she took care of herself with that bag, the senior was making sure that the junior conducts herself as the society dictates. Its not weird, we all do that in our daily life, the question everyone asks before they do anything is, "what would people think?" And we direct our life according to the society's norms and also accordi

Judging Others

Hey Guys!!!! I remember when I was small, I told something bad about somebody to my dad, I have never seen him so stern before or after that incident. He sat up straight and looked directly at me and said, "This will be the first and the last time, you will speak ill of others, never ever judge others. When you make a mistake and the world around you point at you, and say, you are not a correct person, how would you feel?  Do you want that?" "No Dad, I wouldn't want that. I am sorry. I didn't know." This happened when I was 7 yrs old. When I heard my dad say so strongly and the way he told me, believe it or not I really felt fear creep through my very core. That was an eye opener, From that very day, I make sure that I consciously would never speak ill of others and I try to stop if others speak as such. Whenever I come to that situation, that fear just wakes up within - shaking the young Meena from within, to say, "Shut up Meena." Its not

The LoC of Friendship

Hey Guys!!! Friends are the best, when they are there to support us, guide us and lend an ear to hear us. But when they try to take the place of someone, then that is where they cross the Line of Control (LoC). We all have a place in life, no matter what, be there and don't overstep it. Last day, my friend, a married lady who has a good-for-nothing husband and smart two daughters. So it was natural, she needed someone to hear her problems and that was with her colleague, who was a man. Their friendship grew, they helped each other out, now the man wants to have a say in each and every aspect of her life - to whom to talk with, to whom to be with, etc...etc..... that was the death knell of that beautiful relationship.  Whose mistake is it? It is nobody's mistake, we cannot control our heart and the effects the other people have  on us. It can escalate for sure. Then there are the famous "circumstances", like my friend, she has to take care of he

Friendship

Hey Guys!!!! The one relationship in the world, were we take it for granted, until we know the value of it, when we lose it. We cannot define friendship in set of words, but it covers  vast aspects of several relationships, bypassing all categories of relationship like relationship between spouses, parent-children relationship, teacher-student relationship, student/s-student/s relationship, colleagues, employer-employee relationship and the criteria goes on and on...... its a never ending saga of bonds or connections. How do we define friendship? two persons connect together by helping at the right moment without any bias of gender, place, caste, community or religion?    or is it The unconditional love, without any expectation of returning the favours received.  But one thing is for certain, It never tries to cross the border of etiquette or hurt the other person purposely. Its an all giving and all consuming connection These features are more pronounced when we are

Its Boring & Lonely

Hey Guys!!!! This is an apt description for this generation or shall we say the mankind of this era? What happened to bring us to this situation? Well!!! its high time to re-evaluate our lifestyle, what do you think? Shall we? If you want it in a sentence what's wrong with us, then face the truth, we have a void within ourselves that we are trying to fill it with some sort of activity like having fun, party, eat, shop, sex, learn, read, pray, surround with friends, family, love,  the dream girl/boy, etc..etc.. but still you cannot fill it, you are not happy. The happiness we get from the above activities is a momentary thing. After a day or two, you are in the same craving state, a feeling of something missing. Its an unending void and it cannot be filled, no matter what you do. Did you know it? Well, its true, you cannot fill it with the activities stated above, but don't lose heart, you can be fulfilled in the simplest way,  if you love your self, if you respect

Early To Bed Early To Rise Makes A Man Healthy, Wealthy And Wise

Hey Guys!!! Today I would like to speak about a very special saying which has a very big impact in life,  "Early To Bed Early To Rise Makes A Man Healthy, Wealthy And Wise." As a boarder (living in boarding school), the early to bed and early to rise was a must, I had to wake up at 5 am to go for the 6 am mass and that goes for all the boarders. At that time, I wished if I had been home, I could sleep to my heart's content, but that was childish thoughts to just simply waste time - sleeping. Now I would like to ask a simple question, have you gone to space and seen the galaxy or to the depth of the ocean and seen the many wonders inside?  For me the answer is no but I have seen it in movies, I grew up with stories of the dolphins and octopus, etc.... but if we have gone or not, they give a sense of awe, just when we look at the vast ocean or look up at the sky, they make us feel small - a sense of being a speck which is nothing with respect t

How to Stay Always Healthy

Hey Guys!!! Have you wondered why some sickness cannot be cured? or why one fine day, you are afflicted with sickness and for lifelong you are bedridden? It does not mean that you had a viral attack or vitamin deficiency or some such sort. Any sickness, which is curable can be said due to above reasons, but when it doesn't cure after all the medications and treatments, then you will have to go deeper - A depth within you. Just like we going into the deepest part of the ocean or the universe, but its much more easier to go into you. If ever you have read my previous blogs, its mostly full of crap called love. Have you wondered why all the religious books reiterate that Love thy neighbours as thyself? Well, there is a secret behind it, Love, compassion, kindness, peacefulness are all part of the same emotion – Love. Each emotion other than that stated above creates acid in your body. Any acid when it falls in any part of the body destroys that part