Sorry, Please Forgive Me...

  

I have always wondered, if Adam had replied to God, “Sorry God, Please forgive me.” What would have been the result? We don’t know, because he didn’t say it. But one thing we all know, we are all carrying the consequence of his one mistake. And adding to that, we are making several mistakes both knowingly and unknowingly. If you knew, that your mistake will affect your children and all the generations that follow, will you make a mistake? of course not. And You will be very careful when making each decision, right? Well from now on, you can be careful. But what about the past mistakes?

 

If you do not correct it, while you are alive, then you will be passing all the consequence of the mistake, on to your future generation. That’s sad right? How can you correct it?

 

You are an Energy Being. Each time, when you do something negative, like being angry, hating someone, hurting someone, not helping someone, lying, robbing, cheating, killing, etc. it becomes a memory in your energy level. If you clear it immediately, then you will not have a negative memory. But if you don’t clear these negative memories, it will come back to you one by one for clearing. First time, when it returns to you, it will be exactly the same way you did it, but with a different person and circumstance. Let’s check a regular incident.

 

Jobies shouted at Aby in front of other people for no reason of Aby and Aby got angry and shouted back and ended in a big fight. From that day onwards, they never talked to each other. Who created this situation? We know it’s Jobies. But in truth, it was Aby who created this situation because he has a memory of anger, shouting and fighting. This situation was created by the mind of Aby to be cleared unfortunately Jobies was just a dummy. That is why Jesus said on the cross, “Father, Forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” Luke 23:34   What should Aby do? Forgive Jobies unconditionally. I know it’s difficult to do that, but, that’s the only way out.

 

If Aby does not forgive Jobies immediately, then this simple problem will become bigger. Next time it will be Anil coming with a shot gun to shoot Aby for no reason, just like that. That’s how crazy, Aby’s life will become. But the sad part is, Aby is of this world, thinking like a human being. He doesn’t know how this Universe works. So, he continues to be angry with Jobies, Anil and other people who hurt him, which would be a long string of people and incidents. And the people who watches this situation from outside will say, “Poor Aby, it’s so sad, so many bad situations? Why is God so insensitive to him?” It’s not God, it’s the negative memories that Aby created is creating his problems, Jobies or God has no role in it.

 

When you are in a problem, Don’t look at the why’s and who’s and rights and wrongs or fairness or unfairness of the problem, just say, “Sorry, please forgive me and in your mind say like a chant, “Sorry, please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.” until that feeling of hurt, anger is replaced with love towards the person, who is hurting you. And in reality, the Jobies and Anils of our lives are the extension of us and they are doing us a favour unknowingly by showing us the negative memory which needs clearing. That’s why Jesus said while he was on the cross, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." Luke 23:34. So we should be thankful and love our enemies unconditionally by forgiving them. This, is forgiveness. When you forgive them, that memory is completely removed from your energy level and that incident will never repeat in your life. If it happens, then that means, you have not forgiven them completely. So repeat the same process.

 

Next time, when someone smashes you on one cheek don’t forget to show the other one. It’s not my saying, it’s in the Bible, but personally, I don’t know whether I will have that much courage to stand there and receive even the first blow. Just kidding, what it really means is, if someone ill-treats you mentally, physically or psychologically. Don’t run away from the problem and don’t open your mouth to justify you. Just shut your mouth tight and say the magic words in your mind continuously, “Sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.” When you do this repeatedly, you will not have any anger or hatred against the person who is standing in front of you and hurting you. And about Jobies and Anils of our lives? They have now officially created a negative memory for themselves and if they don’t clear it immediately, by saying the magic words, then they are doomed, just like Adam and Judas. I know, you will be rolling your eyes, but that’s how this Universe works. You are the creator of your destiny. So, let’s do us a favour, learn to forgive. Then you will be able to clear all blocks one by one and live happily ever after. I hope you have understood the basic mechanics of you.

 

Live your best life and keep smiling. See you. Bye.

 

Meena