Happily Ever After Series - When Someone Shouts At You Angrily

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When someone shouts at you angrily, the first question you ask yourself is, "What did I do wrong?"

Your answer, "For correcting my mistake? But I didn't do any wrong." Your mind continues, "She hates me." And then you behave accordingly. How? By shouting back? or........ Forgive them?

What is reality? Why do some people get angry for no reason or for small reasons?

Because your action or your person triggered their bad memory. It's not your fault or their fault, it just came out from their emotional baggage unconsciously. When you know that they did it unconsciously, what will you do?

You will forgive them and forget the incident, right? But if you don't forgive what will happen?


Welcome aboard, you have created a memory for yourself and you will behave exactly like the person who shouted at you, but doubly strong than what they did to you. Do you want it? I hope not. If you don't clear this incident by forgiving them immediately, then it will get worse and worse as time passes, you can be a psycho within no time.

So, don't reciprocate exactly like the people who angered you. If you made a mistake, say "Sorry" and correct your mistake. If they are angry for no reason, then, still say "Sorry" and just forgive them unconditionally.

But what if you are the person who shouts at others? Then stop right there. it's time to clear your bad memories one by one, or else you will end up in a mental asylum.

Life is to be enjoyed, not suffer. You have a long road ahead, reduce your baggage of hurt, anger, hatred, and all the negative feelings and emotions, then you would have a better chance to have an easy journey called - LIFE.

 



Take care.

Bye

Meena


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