Meena Mangalathil:

Hey Guys!!!! Here in the place I live, its really....and  literally hot, in the sense that its sweaty hot..... In the climate  sense, it can be yuck!!!! but in the sense of the place, the people, the ambiance, its simply wow!!!! You might wonder what I am getting at, its that, its not necessary that it should be a destination-destination to love a place. Its the positive attitude of life that brings a positive outlook to wherever you are with whoever you are. As I always tell you, positive outlook happens when you love your self, respect your self. You should feel that you are the best.  To be the best, its not necessary you should be the winner, giving the best shot at whatever you do and you are happy with whatever the outcome,  is the best win. The Result - You will respect your self, love your self and be happy with your self and that will bring a new perspective of life and a brightness around you. That is what makes you love the place where you are. Why don't yo

Hey Guys!!!! Love Marriages!!!! Hmmmm....Its so fantastic an experience to be in Love. And I love to see the happiness when these guys decide to get married. In India, the elders, just sigh and shake their head and say, "Its no use, they are doomed to break." And Lo Behold!!! it so happens as such. Do you think, its jinxed? Everywhere in the world its the same. Do you really feel that the Lover couple purposely do what they do because they want to break up the relationship, which they have decided to be happily ever after? We all know the answer to it. Its Emphatically No. Then why is it they break up? Well, we'll check out how we can save a break up from my perspective. Full stomach is a must. Have a secure job, or else, love can sustain until the stomach rumbles, afterwards, believe it or not, you are going to fight for sure - For Food (ha..ha..ha.. what a joke!!!) Little acts of kindness is a must. Whether you believe it or not, the lady is the ligh

Hey Guys!!! I just watched a Christmas movie and you know what? I love to always watch Christmas movies, if ever I get a chance, even if it is in the middle of an hectic schedule, I wouldn't miss it. You might wonder Why I like it or What I like about it?  Its the uplifting experience, its the feeling of joy, love, anticipation and that special something.... Hmmmm...the special something? Well, its nothing but, " The Gift" Yes, The Gift . Christmas is the time of giving. That is when we feel happy. Even before we give, we tend to anticipate what the person who gets our gift would feel. And the subsequent feeling of Love..... peace... happiness....Hmm the perfect mix of feelings for a good contented  life. In short - Just give something, it can be a smile or a helping hand in work or wherever or gifts as in material gifts thing, a good word, a kind gesture, an ear to hear, etc.... etc...etc... Believe it, small small simple acts is what mainly counts in th

Hey Guys!!! Have you wondered how it feels when you are in Love? Well you will know it exactly only when you love somebody. Can I pass a secret to you? When I was in high school and college, I had great expectation, that I will find a person who loves me and I for him. Unfortunately, all the guys in the college were my friends and to be frank, we guys, both girls and boys  were so happy with how we were that nobody had this tendency to do anything other than support each other and be best friends. As time went by, we continued to behave the same way, though we never had contact with each other, the trait of supporting each other wherever we are and not hurt anybody became our single aim in life. Now, to follow this aim in life, we should love that person, respect that person and have faith in that person. But, we cannot do that unless it is reciprocated, right? Well, that is where the beauty of life lies. Nobody can love us or respect us, or have faith in us like we do our o

Hey Guys!!!! There is no safe way to use tobacco.  Its easy to explain to the smoker in detail  and show it in movies, videos, advertisements, having no smoke areas,  etc....etc.... If ever you really and heartfully want to quit smoking then this is for you guys. Believe me, its the only best way to do it.  Be a good Samaritan, go to the nearest public hospital or hospice, which has oncology specialisation (Cancer department)  spend some time (minimum one hour for 1 month)with the patients there, meet them, their family members it will help them go through their pains and discomforts of the disease. We all have our choices, these patients made their choice and they are now facing the consequence - irreversible consequences of pain and suffering. If you are a smoker and choose to see what your future would be like  - watch a live presentation of your future you can see, live and savour.  Ultimately you get a second chance to choose your lifes

Hey Guys!!!!! What is your aim in life? To become successful? or happy? or be the best in everything you do? Well, its easy to have an aim in life, but getting to happen is another cup of tea. Do you really want to fulfill your aim? Here is the best part - Have a clear aim and let it go. Don't obsess on it. Then for sure the aim will be fulfilled within no time. I remember when I was young, I was in the boarding school, so whatever wishes I had, I thought I will have to wait until holidays when I meet my parents. In those times, I believed, that God was in the sky and the sky was too high for me. And I knew I can't shout my wish publicly because children taunts when the wishes were ridiculous. So, I looked at the sky and shouted internally from the very bottom of my heart  the wish I had.(And I waited because Sound travels in waves and the ripple has to travel till heaven) You know when we are kids, we do not have any prejudice of who we are, whether our prayers

Dear Guys!!! I have had people blaming the children those who have put their parents in oldage, when they become old, but have you wondered what leads to it? Just a preview of an eye opening conversation. When old meets old, they prefer to talk about children and grand children. How they are treated? How do they feel about it. Yesterday, I happened to hear one, quite accidentally. Grandma 1 : "My children, my grand children all love me so...... much that I feel really loved, and cherished and pampered." Grandma 2 : "I have children and grandchildren, but nobody loves me, they dislikes me." When we are a child or an old person, life becomes very simple, we don't bother about etiquette or sensivity or sensibility, whatever we feel is expressed without any barriers Grandma 1 : "Why is it that everybody hates you?" Grandma 2 : "Because I point out the mistakes of my kids and my grandkids or whoever I meet makes. So they are alway