Posts

The Stone

Image
  "The difference between a stumbling block and a stepping stone depends on how high you raise your foot." When I heard this sentence, I really felt wow! The same stone with two definitions? Cool!!!  In life we are always at this cross road of choice, we always have to choose one thing or the other. The situations we are in can either become a S tumbling Block where we always feel we are a failure or a loser, Or it can be a Stepping Stone , where success is at every corner. So now, the million dollar question. How do make the right choice?  It's simple. Choose the decision that increases your love and respect for your Self.  If your decision makes you hate your Self. Then the decision you made will become a stumbling block.  Always remember, "People around you, your family, friends, foes, country men, etc. etc. they will all  leave  you at some point of time. But Your  "Self", no matter where you are, with whom you are, it will always be with you, your sol

Why are Teenagers Weird?

Image
Hey guys!!!   Last day, my friend's daughter, a teenager, bunked (skipped) class and threw a tantrum(shouting with anger) when asked about it. Her parents gaped at her shocking behaviour. But in reality, she didn't feel like going to school, so she didn't go. It's as simple as that. We do it as an adult, don't we? And have you felt any odd about the situation?   Why do teenagers act weirdly?     Well, first we should know what happens to a teenager at this age. When we plant a seed in the soil, it will be like a seed for some days in the soil. That is like the childhood of human beings. Before the seed sprouts, the body of the seed swells and bursts to bring out the leaf. That is what happens for a teenager too. Their whole body structure is being modified completely.   Let’s check in detail the fine print of human body of a teenager. The teenage years are also called adolescence. This is the time for growth spurts and sexual maturation.      First we will check the

Happily Ever After Series - The Best Part of My Life.

Image
 Hey guys!!!  Do you know what's the best part of my life?  I get to live it. I have my own body and body parts. It works for me round the clock. It never says I can't. I don't have to pay for its services. I can dream my dreams. I can think my own thoughts. I can feel my own feelings. If I can do all these and many many more things freely. Shouldn't I be happy?  Yes, I should. Luckily I went through so many experiences in my lifetime and learnt so many things from people who went through both good and bad that I was lucky I didn't have to go through that again. Now I know, how fortunate I am. For that, I thank the Universe, my parents, my circumstances, and above all my choices.  In short, I am very very lucky to have got this life.  To be frank, I really really love my life. I thank the people who helped me and hurt me.  I thank my Self for being there for me from very small till now. Its never let me alone. So, is there a reason for me to be sad? No, never. Hope

Happily Ever After Series - Don't Reason Your Decisions

Image
Hi guys!!!! You know, we always make decisions, one way or other. Imagine you are going out, you decide on a dress, shoes, the accessories you are planning to have along with you, the list of decisions goes on. No matter how it looks or how others feel about it, your decisions are yours only. You will surely face the consequences of your decision, no doubt. Nobody is going to share the consequences with you.  So what do you think? Will the consequences be different if you find a reason for your decisions? I don't think so.  My advice is, whatever you decide, " Decide with Love " because the decisions you are making are for you.  Your happiness depends on it. And one other very important favour I want to ask from you guys, Please don't make decisions for others. They are entitled to freely decide. Let them beautifully and lovingly decide, watch their expressions and dilemmas when they decide and be there for them when they need you, that's all, the rest they will m

Happily Ever After Series - The Disease

Image
Hi Guys!!! My family is going through a cancer phase. When I heard it the first time, I didn't feel anything, no feelings at all because I knew it was the body's message to calm down, take rest and enjoy life. Personally, if it was me, I would have done just that, but unfortunately, it was a family member, who heard the people around. People swarmed from every walks of life and advised 1001 ways to fight cancer. The best hospitals, the best doctors, the best after service, etc..etc... The one thing they forgot to take into consideration is what would happen to the human being who has been afflicted. Anyway, I am writing this post after 6 months of the above issue. The family decided to surgically remove the cancerous part, do the radiation and finish off the situation in one go. Everything was a grand success, except the doctor removed the facial nerve which was passing by the cancerous area and the patient has no sensation on that part of his face. So now, when he smiles or ta

Happily ever After Series - Passion

Image
 Hi Guys!!! I have always wondered, what makes our life worth living. Have you ever thought about it? A housewife does the same work from dawn to dusk. There is nothing different. They wake up early in the morning, take bath, pray, start preparing food, feed the family. After the kids and husband has gone, she starts, washing, cleaning, ironing, and all the knick-knacks which never come to anyone's notice until when she is no more. By that time, it would be too late to say a trivial "Thank you". So, why does a housewife never complain about doing this monotonous job? Because she loves doing it for her family. The keyword is "Love". That is what passion is all about. Doing the job selflessly, without conditions or reservations and with love it becomes a passion. You can have 1001 passions. So don't stop at one activity. When there is passion, happiness, success, and prosperity follows... That is the power of "Love". So from now on, whatever you do,

Happily Ever After Series - Why Is It Important To Remove Your Negative Thoughts

Image
 What are negative thoughts? Let's first check the list of negative thoughts. Abandoned Accused Agony Alienated Alone Angry Anxious Ashamed Attacked Battered Belittled Bereaved Betrayed Bitter Boxed in Can’t breath Chained Cheated Claustrophobic Confused Controlled Crazy Criticized Damned Deceived Degraded Demeaned Demoralized Depressed Deprived Despair Indifferent Dirty Disappointed Disgraced Disgusted Dominated Don’t belong Don’t exist Don’t fit Embarrased Empty Enraged Evil Extrovert Failure Fearful Filthy Foolish Forgotten Freakish Frustrated Garbage Guilty Helpless Hopeless Humiliated Hurt Ignorant Inadequate Incompetent Insecure Insignificant Insulted Introvert Invisible Irresponsible Jealous Lazy Left out Lonely Losing control Losing my mind Lost Lustful Manipulated Mental Misunderstood Mistake Nasty Neglected Not approved Not cared for Not comforted Not needed Not nurtured Numb Offended Out of control Outcast Overexposed Overwhelmed Panicky People pleaser Powerless Pressure