Happily Ever After Series - The Best Part of My Life.

 Hey guys!!!  Do you know what's the best part of my life?  I get to live it. I have my own body and body parts. It works for me round the clock. It never says I can't. I don't have to pay for its services. I can dream my dreams. I can think my own thoughts. I can feel my own feelings. If I can do all these and many many more things freely. Shouldn't I be happy?  Yes, I should. Luckily I went through so many experiences in my lifetime and learnt so many things from people who went through both good and bad that I was lucky I didn't have to go through that again. Now I know, how fortunate I am. For that, I thank the Universe, my parents, my circumstances, and above all my choices.  In short, I am very very lucky to have got this life.  To be frank, I really really love my life. I thank the people who helped me and hurt me.  I thank my Self for being there for me from very small till now. Its never let me alone. So, is there a reason for me to be sad? No, never. Hope

Happily Ever After Series - Don't Reason Your Decisions

Hi guys!!!! You know, we always make decisions, one way or other. Imagine you are going out, you decide on a dress, shoes, the accessories you are planning to have along with you, the list of decisions goes on. No matter how it looks or how others feel about it, your decisions are yours only. You will surely face the consequences of your decision, no doubt. Nobody is going to share the consequences with you.  So what do you think? Will the consequences be different if you find a reason for your decisions? I don't think so.  My advice is, whatever you decide, " Decide with Love " because the decisions you are making are for you.  Your happiness depends on it. And one other very important favour I want to ask from you guys, Please don't make decisions for others. They are entitled to freely decide. Let them beautifully and lovingly decide, watch their expressions and dilemmas when they decide and be there for them when they need you, that's all, the rest they will m

Happily Ever After Series - The Disease

Hi Guys!!! My family is going through a cancer phase. When I heard it the first time, I didn't feel anything, no feelings at all because I knew it was the body's message to calm down, take rest and enjoy life. Personally, if it was me, I would have done just that, but unfortunately, it was a family member, who heard the people around. People swarmed from every walks of life and advised 1001 ways to fight cancer. The best hospitals, the best doctors, the best after service, etc..etc... The one thing they forgot to take into consideration is what would happen to the human being who has been afflicted. Anyway, I am writing this post after 6 months of the above issue. The family decided to surgically remove the cancerous part, do the radiation and finish off the situation in one go. Everything was a grand success, except the doctor removed the facial nerve which was passing by the cancerous area and the patient has no sensation on that part of his face. So now, when he smiles or ta

Happily ever After Series - Passion

 Hi Guys!!! I have always wondered, what makes our life worth living. Have you ever thought about it? A housewife does the same work from dawn to dusk. There is nothing different. They wake up early in the morning, take bath, pray, start preparing food, feed the family. After the kids and husband has gone, she starts, washing, cleaning, ironing, and all the knick-knacks which never come to anyone's notice until when she is no more. By that time, it would be too late to say a trivial "Thank you". So, why does a housewife never complain about doing this monotonous job? Because she loves doing it for her family. The keyword is "Love". That is what passion is all about. Doing the job selflessly, without conditions or reservations and with love it becomes a passion. You can have 1001 passions. So don't stop at one activity. When there is passion, happiness, success, and prosperity follows... That is the power of "Love". So from now on, whatever you do,

Happily Ever After Series - Why Is It Important To Remove Your Negative Thoughts

 What are negative thoughts? Let's first check the list of negative thoughts. Abandoned Accused Agony Alienated Alone Angry Anxious Ashamed Attacked Battered Belittled Bereaved Betrayed Bitter Boxed in Can’t breath Chained Cheated Claustrophobic Confused Controlled Crazy Criticized Damned Deceived Degraded Demeaned Demoralized Depressed Deprived Despair Indifferent Dirty Disappointed Disgraced Disgusted Dominated Don’t belong Don’t exist Don’t fit Embarrased Empty Enraged Evil Extrovert Failure Fearful Filthy Foolish Forgotten Freakish Frustrated Garbage Guilty Helpless Hopeless Humiliated Hurt Ignorant Inadequate Incompetent Insecure Insignificant Insulted Introvert Invisible Irresponsible Jealous Lazy Left out Lonely Losing control Losing my mind Lost Lustful Manipulated Mental Misunderstood Mistake Nasty Neglected Not approved Not cared for Not comforted Not needed Not nurtured Numb Offended Out of control Outcast Overexposed Overwhelmed Panicky People pleaser Powerless Pressure

Happily Ever After Series - What is BAD?

Hi guys!! Some say dark is bad. what is your opinion? Imagine there is no darkness at all and only light, is it good? You might answer, "I don't know." Yes, we really don't know. Because it is what it is. When the sun sets  and you are enveloped in darkness, can you do anything about it? Nothing. It is what it is. Clean and dirty, which is bad? Both are a state of being.  In the deserts, the sun is very hot. So they try not to be in the Sun for long periods. But in snowy areas, they try to have sunbath under that same Sun. So is Sun good or bad? There is nothing good or bad about the Sun. That's how it is. Good and bad are man created words. If you ask a baby what is good or what is bad, it will look at you and smile, because he has no words or thoughts. He just lives in the moment. So next time when something "BAD" happens to you, or you feel "BAD" remember, there is nothing bad in that situation. It was supposed to happen at that moment and i

Happily Ever After Series - Stop Making Resolutions

Hey Guys!!! Every year before the arrival of the new year, unconsciously we have a tendency to make resolutions or if we are young, we are asked to make resolutions. And we try to make sure that we follow it, but it's a rarity that we are able to fulfill it till the very end. Have you ever wondered why can't we keep our resolutions? Well!! Let's check why. When we break promises to others, we feel bad about it. But we don't even regret breaking the resolution or the promise we made. Yeah.. yeah... I know... we have 1001 reasons. In reality, there is only one reason - We don't VALUE or LOVE or RESPECT our SELF . You don't believe it? Let me explain. Let's check the dialogue we have with our self before breaking the resolution, I will give mine. "Meena, I think we need to break this resolution next time, we will do it much more strongly. I promise I will keep it till the year end, but for this once, I have no choice.. I need to break it.. I really can&