Don't Be An Ass
Patience is one thing, which every person needs, but for parents, the most. Not because the children are naughty.
They are the cutest things in our life, but they are not the only cutest things, do remember. Every parent has lots of other cute factors, which can really put us in boiling point on a daily basis. But unfortunately it bursts in front of the child, because, they unsuspectingly fall cutely in front of us, unchaining the devil within us. And not only that, the child becomes the Judas of the day and eventually, makes him for the rest of his life.
Oh!! you didn't get it?
Its simple, we always blame the child for the said outburst, but in real, the child was just a scape goat.
There is no use blaming your kid. They are here and they face their own problems. But is it fare to add our problems, to them with all the fan fare?
You can share your problems with your children, but don't burst on them and slander them with blame. Usually the outburst happens, when you ask your child to do something and he doesn't do it.
Don't expect them to obey in the first go, because, when you are angry, the language you use, is not fit for any sensible ear, then imagine, how your child would respond.
"Right, No Response."
That is why, I say, have patience. Not because, your child is stretching you to the limit, but you are being an ass for them to digest.
See you tomorrow.
Until then, take care.
Bye
Meena
They are the cutest things in our life, but they are not the only cutest things, do remember. Every parent has lots of other cute factors, which can really put us in boiling point on a daily basis. But unfortunately it bursts in front of the child, because, they unsuspectingly fall cutely in front of us, unchaining the devil within us. And not only that, the child becomes the Judas of the day and eventually, makes him for the rest of his life.
Oh!! you didn't get it?
Its simple, we always blame the child for the said outburst, but in real, the child was just a scape goat.
There is no use blaming your kid. They are here and they face their own problems. But is it fare to add our problems, to them with all the fan fare?
You can share your problems with your children, but don't burst on them and slander them with blame. Usually the outburst happens, when you ask your child to do something and he doesn't do it.
Don't expect them to obey in the first go, because, when you are angry, the language you use, is not fit for any sensible ear, then imagine, how your child would respond.
"Right, No Response."
That is why, I say, have patience. Not because, your child is stretching you to the limit, but you are being an ass for them to digest.
See you tomorrow.
Until then, take care.
Bye
Meena
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